General you should copyright* that last paragraph in case Hallmark tries to steal it for a card!
I am with you - usually just waiting until the holiday season is over and trying to hunker down at home as much as possible until it is. After about age 19 I have worked many more holidays than not. Then I realized that I prefer to work holidays because people generally sympathize or its quiet because most people aren't working.
My favorite story comes from my wife who is a flight attendant and on Christmas she invariably gets passengers who say "I can't believe they have you guys working on Christmas!", you know as if they would just be flying around empty planes if no passengers decided to travel.
But for all the Satanism and misanthropy I am usually overcome by a few moments of grace and charity during 'the season'. Whether its nostalgia, deeply repressed guilt or just human empathy it is always nice to be overwhelmed, if only for a moment, by a sense of gratitude and generosity and peace, which is what I wish for the world, and I express it through random acts of kindness and giving when I can. And by generally trying not to be a complete asshole.