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I recall back when that song came out, and in the back of a Guitar Magazine they tabbed it out with lyrics and it said something along the lines of “you have something I want and I take it from you.” When I listen I cant hear anything but that. 

NONE is legit. I like Nadja and Moss and wall-of-sound depressing doom bands that you can sleep to and NONE is like the sadder black metal version of that. 

There is the band Nanowar of Steel, but I don't know if they're really gay or if it's their "act".
https://www.metal-archives.com/bands/Nanowar_of_Steel/3540261755
Also, there is the band Bile, their bass player, R.H. Bear, is gay. He is what's called a "Bear" in the gay community. A bear is basically a big hairy bearded gay or bi man. I used to be really into the bear scene, went to bars on bear night, and other events related to that subculture, but I am now in a monogamous relationship with my fiancée. So, if you're looking for metal made by not straight people, you could check out my industrial black metal band, which I am about to post about in the promote yourself part of the forum.

In my opinion, the East Asian metal scene is really good right now, especially in regards to extreme black/death/noise metal.  Tetragrammacide (India), Kapala (India), Reek of the Unzen Gas Fumes (Japan), Grizzly Fetish (Japan), Fogged by Fleshflies (Japan/S. Korea), Thy Sepulchral Moon (S. Korea), Konflict (Sri Lanka), and Genocide Shrines (Sri Lanka) are all very good.  I would love to hear about more, though.

I feel silly posting a "Hi howya doin'" post but Hello! I have always loved heavy metal, from Whitesnake and Sabbath as a little kid to Slipknot (I was a teenager and it was their debut album, come on) to At The Gates in college and Buried at Sea and Napalm Death as an old man in my 30s. It's the best genre.
I like endurance athletic events like running really far and riding my bicycle even farther and I also make my own music and release albums. I make doom/drone metal in one project and make black/death metal in another project. I've been in grindcore and post-hardcore bands and have discussions at work about which nu-metal band was the best with unsuspecting coworkers. I have also given an academic lecture on the history of grindcore from 1981-2006 to a room of about 50 people with zero interest in the topic. 
I have mostly been a grind/death fan until about two years ago when I heard Belphegor's Bondage Goat Zombie and Oathbreaker's Rheia, which made me go down the rabbit hole of black metal and, once you weed out the gross Nazi garbage, is a really amazing style in terms of how noisy, brutal, absolutely ridiculous, and beautiful it can be. 
 
Uh ok cool!