Pre-pandemic the kids used to buy me a band t-shirt for my birthday. I'd get in a few months early and order it from wherever it came from, give it to the kids when it arrived and then forget about it until they turned on up the day with a wrapped parcel. But shit it's hard to do that these days. I went looking the other day and the cheapest I can get a shirt or hoodie mailed to me is about $18 from the Helloween shop in Europe. Every other label or band shop wants up to $40 just for shipping, with many of the US labels starting at $45 and getting as high as $125 for one single hoodie.
One of the costs of buying from overseas has always been our dollar against the world. Long gone are the days of the 00's where the Aussie dollar was hitting 90c. It's just something we have to accept, but $40 to send an item worth only $20 is just not going to happen. US post, DHL mainly, was always expensive but never as expensive as it has been since the pandemic.
Labels like Roadruunner etc used to have a reasonable supply of stock in their Aussie store but these days even that's diminished when bands don't have albums out or on tour.