Thanks a lot for the constructive feedback!
It's a relief to finally have some feedback on the vocals (as I am the vocalist), since that rarily happens. Melodically, some (or a lot) of the "safe" melodies are constructed on purpose. I am a sucker for catchy choruses and cheesy harmonies, and tend to drift towards it naturally. However, I'll take into it into consideration and try to experiment a bit more in the future.
Lyrically I certainly have a lot to learn, no doubts there. I've only written lyrics for about 2,5 years, and I don't really write anything besides the lyrics that end up in the songs. In retrospect, it seems to me I might have treated the vocals more like an additional instrument more than anything, in terms of function. Might be off here, though.
I see where you're coming from here. I am an adamant believer in uniqe part in conventional structure, OR unusual structures made of predictable parts. To my experience, doing unique/wierd parts in an unusual structure, usually results in listeners being dumbfounded and/or lacking any solid ground or memorable part of the song/music to hold on to.
It's certainly a matter of taste, and I too listen to several artists/musicians doing wierd shit in wierd structures, but it just ends up being music for musicians. I'm not really sure I want the music I make to only be fully enjoyable, or fully translatable, to active musicians.
With all that being said, I'm not denouncing your opnion in any way, as a lot the music is, as you say, safe (for a lack of better terms). I'm gonna take heed to what you say, and work it in to our new writing.
Again, thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts on the music!