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1 hour ago, MacabreEternal said:

Yeah, but I already have "things in the pipeline" (sounds more painful than it is in reality), last thing I need is her thinking sabre-rattling is going to work.  Good things come to those who wait.

As tempting as it is to make a joke about your "pipeline", I'll just wish you luck, and that your contact with her mother is as infrequent and brief as possible. 

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On 2/28/2016 at 1:00 PM, MacabreEternal said:

Girlfriend is really ramping up the proposal hints now.  Yesterday when we went out shopping we happened to end up in a jewellers shop to "size up her fingers" and now there's a FaceBook post banging on about the leap year and how it really should be up to the bloke anyway. 

 

Sigh.

Permit me to say this about that. Certain chicks, just about all of them I imagine, dig being married. If your handing out with someone and you feel certain that you would enjoy having kids with her for example, or otherwise happily spend the rest of your life together, than you should propose to her on cue. This only applies if you are super clear that it's for you, having kids and staying together for the duration. Kids and commitment is a bigger deal than marriage, but barrage still holds a status appeal for most women.

One last bit of advice, make it seems like the proposal was your idea, and your wicked nervous that she might say no, because that would ruin you.

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My fall back position if this ever comes up in my life will be "after 3 years of living together it's a de facto marriage ensuring most of the same legal rights as traditional marriage. The only logical reason why you would want to be married is because you actually want to split up and like half my stuff...

 

And THAT, ladies and gentlemen, is probably why I'll be single for the rest of my life...

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Been recently put on full time :) swapping between work on the factory floor to working in the office doing drafting. Also doing Engineering part time after work a couple of nights a week. These 12 hour days get pretty tedious but definitely worth it in the end.

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Well congrats mate. Meanwhile I've just realised from next week onwards I will be spending much less time around here. Sundays and Mondays are still more or less free but Tuesday through Saturday I have a total of seven hours in which to do what I want. Seven, out of 120, and I don't even have a fucking job to worry about...

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I met my wife around 20 years ago. We've been seeing each other on and off since high school, though we both had other serious relationships during that time, and we lived and went to college in different cities. She moved to NYC eight and a half years ago. I helped her move in to her apartment, and we've been together ever since. The actual proposal was a very makeshift late-night affair, but that was fine with her. We did something a little more technically "romantic" later, once she'd picked out the ring (better that way).

 

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20 hours ago, GorboGorboze said:

Permit me to say this about that. Certain chicks, just about all of them I imagine, dig being married. If your handing out with someone and you feel certain that you would enjoy having kids with her for example, or otherwise happily spend the rest of your life together, than you should propose to her on cue. This only applies if you are super clear that it's for you, having kids and staying together for the duration. Kids and commitment is a bigger deal than marriage, but barrage still holds a status appeal for most women.

One last bit of advice, make it seems like the proposal was your idea, and your wicked nervous that she might say no, because that would ruin you.

Kids are a bad example as I will never have kids with anyone.  I am far too selfish and as stated before I admire anyone who is a parent because I just don't possess that in my repertoire of human skills.  I look after myself in the main which makes the girlfriend's' desire to  marry me all the more poignant as I am nearly sure I don't deserve someone so patient and understanding.  I have waited for my moment and know exactly when and where I will propose, her recent commentary is just a little badly timed.

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Yeah, I also see kids and marriage as being independent commitments. Certainly possible to happily and productively have either one without the other. After what you've said about your previous marriage, it's cool that you can put that experience aside and consider taking the plunge with someone else.

Maybe next time she hints at it, you should just wink and say "don't spoil the surprise", and then pretend like nothing happened. :D

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Good news and bad news. The good news is I may be going to Marrakesh for a few days with the ex over the summer. The bad news is that I may have spent too long working with the fibreglass on my DT project yesterday, so I was rather, how do I put this... violently sick this morning. Turns out the air filters in the tech rooms only remove dust and not fumes. Good thing school was closed today, by the end of yesterday you couldn't go into the tech rooms without getting a lungful of noxious gases.

Sorry I'm a bit late to the party Macabre, but I hope all goes well with your girlfriend/ lady friend/ hopefully soon to be fiancée.

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Wow, Marrakesh, huh? With the ex... good luck there, and feel better, fumes are nasty business.

On my mind - gave my phone an inadvertent dish-water bath last night. I kept my old one as a backup, and I'm surprised to find that not only does it still work fine, but I actually much prefer it. Fuck planned obsolescence and forced upgrades.

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Wow, Marrakesh, huh? With the ex... good luck there, and feel better, fumes are nasty business.

On my mind - gave my phone an inadvertent dish-water bath last night. I kept my old one as a backup, and I'm surprised to find that not only does it still work fine, but I actually much prefer it. Fuck planned obsolescence and forced upgrades.

Indeed. I'll never forget how infuriating it was when I was still using iTunes (the Mrs bought me a video iPod when she washed my 3rd generation iPod), I would be insanely frustrated anytime that anyone commandeered my computer and updated iTunes with whatever they were doing. Each update was worse than the last, and had it not been washed, my 3rd generation iPod would probably still be holding up.

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